| Ten Common Questions Parents Ask About Newborns |
| When will my baby sleep through the night? |
| Since a newborn’s stomach can empty in as few as two hours, you
can expect several nighttime feedings for a while. Each baby is different,
but generally they all begin to develop sleep patterns by 3 months
of age. At that time, you may get four hours or so of uninterrupted
sleep. By 6 months your baby will sleep six or seven hours, maybe
more, before waking to be fed. It is unfortunate that babies need
the most nighttime attention during the weeks when parents need the
most sleep. Try to snatch sleep during the day when the baby is napping..
This may leave you more refreshed and better able to enjoy those middle
of the night encounters, which can be peaceful, quiet times to get
to know your baby better. |
| How can I tell if my newborn is getting enough to eat? |
| If the baby seems to be gaining weight and appears healthy, you
can be fairly sure he is getting enough nourishment. Another indicator
is frequency of urination. A well-fed baby will usually need a dry
diaper every two or three hours. If you are breast—feeding, remember
that when the baby is nursing eagerly, most of the milk will be consumed
in the first 10-15 minutes. Even if the feeding seems short, he has
probably gotten all he wants. Bottle-fed babies typically drink four
to six ounces of formula every three to four hours. |
| How can I stop the hiccups? |
| Hiccups are caused by the newborn’s immature muscles and occur quite
often in some babies. There is nothing you can do when your baby gets
the hiccups except to let them run their course and understand that
they are normal and no cause for alarm. If hiccups last for a long
period of time and interfere with feedings, however, check with your
doctor. |
| Is it normal for the baby to make noises while sleeping? |
| Yes, and these sounds can be very disconcerting to the new parent.
sometimes they sound almost like animal noises. In a short period
of time you will get to know your baby and will become comfortable
with all of the peculiar little noises unique to his special style
of sleep. |
| We came from the hospital two days ago and my baby keeps sneezing,
could he have a cold? |
| Probably not. Newborns’ respiratory passages are easily irritated,
and frequent sneezing is quite common. Your baby is probably responding
in a healthy way to something in his nose, such as mucus, fuzz, or
dust. On the subject of colds, it is uncommon for newborns to catch
colds or other contagious illnesses during the first three months
of life because of the protective, immunizing properties present in
the placenta and in breast milk. However, if your baby feels hot,
shows a sudden loss of appetite, or switches abruptly from active
to listless behavior, you should consult your pediatrician. |
| My baby has pimples and red blotches all over his face, whats
wrong? |
| It is very common for newborns to have milky-white pimples on their
faces. This is caused by the pores becoming clogged with natural oils
and is not a reflection on the parents’ care. Keep the baby’s skin
clean, and time will take care of the problem. Red blotches, often
called "stork bites", sometimes appear on a baby’s forehead,
nose, and neck. The cause of these blotches is not known. Most of
them disappear in time, but your pediatrician can tell you if any
of the blotches seem to be permanent. |
| My baby cries all the time, can I do anything to quiet him? |
| First, look for physical causes for the crying, such as hunger,
the need to suck, over stimulation, fatigue, discomfort, or the desire
to be held. Then try to satisfy the physical need by feeding, burping,
walking, or rocking--whatever seems appropriate. If the baby is tired
or over stimulated, you can try placing her in a quiet, darkened room
or bundling her in a blanket to give her feelings of closeness and
security. If none of these techniques works and the baby’s crying
periods seem excessive, you should consult your pediatrician to rule
out any other physical problems that may be causing the distress.
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| The area around the umbilical cord looks red, could it be infected?
|
| It is normal for the area around the cord to be pinkish or reddish.
The presence of a lot or redness or some pus, however, could indicate
a slight infection. Swabbing the area with alcohol on cotton will
help combat the infection and hasten the drying process. If the infection
persists, consult your doctor. |
| How can I tell if my baby is having normal bowl movements? |
| Because stool patterns vary with each baby, it is impossible to
define what is normal. The best way to answer this question is to
describe what is not normal. Watery stool or stool containing mucus
or blood may indicate an intestinal disorder, such as diarrhea, and
should be reported to your doctor. Watery stool may resemble chicken
or beef broth. Also, if’ the baby experiences great difficulty passing
stool, and if the result is hard and dry, he may, be constipated.
In general, anything else is normal. |
| When can I take the baby out? |
| A baby who is dressed appropriately can be taken out almost anytime,
unless a doctor has advised otherwise. Fresh air is good for babies.
Remember, though, that babies tend to lose body heat more rapidly
than adults. They should be dressed in a hat and warm clothes if the
weather is cool. Avoid taking the baby out for extended periods if
the temperature or weather conditions are uncomfortable for you, as
an adult. But even in these situations, a short car ride to visit
friends or relatives is okay. However, you should avoid taking your
baby to crowded places where he could be exposed to people who might
be sick. |
| Reprinted with permission from New Parent Advisor,
13—30 Corporation. |